Aslamoalekum and hello to my @reflection community! It's my first post in this community.
Hope you all are doing very well, Today I'm here again with another post about the most compulsory topic. About the things that should be included in our lives like a base of building.
I'm talking about the priorities we set for us to move forward for a successful life.
Priorities make the character of a person. It determines whether the person will be an angel or a devil.
For an ideal personality according to me, the priorities should be in the order.
Firstly Religion, then health, after that comes career, then serving humanity, self-respect and at last comes family and friends.
Religion:
Different folks in different areas of this world own relative religion. According to the thoughts of choosing right or wrong. Religion is a complete guide of do's and don'ts. Every religion directs a human towards the right path if it's followed in true meaning. So for a well-groomed and decent personality and perfection in every field, a person should follow his religion at every step of life. It builds the superior character of a person which is positive for everyone around him.
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Health:
Health should be our second priority. If we are not healthy, we cannot do anything for our family or even for ourselves. So we should try to focus on our health and keep ourselves healthy so that we can live a good life.
Career: Career comes after health. We should try to choose a better career for ourselves and try to give our 100% to our profession. Unfortunately, most of us are not happy with our profession. We should try to follow our passion. If our passion becomes a profession we are the luckiest person on this planet. So we should be serious about our careers.
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Serving Humanity:
The fourth priority should be humanity.
Humanity is mandatory for us as it keeps everyone connected with us ❤️. If a personality is devoid of humanity, that becomes toxic and negative for the humans living around him. The discomfort caused by this attitude spreads bad deeds in society. Everyone lives with him or her but the true person is that who lives for others. Who thinks about others and feels the pain of people surrounded by him. It's obvious that a person will be more loved and wanted if he is a well-wisher for others. It's the beauty of spirit. It's the eternity of that person if he will be dead even.
Self Respect:
After humanity comes self-respect, it is also the main pillar of great character building. It's good if a person is humble and kind but it's necessary to have self-respect. Sometimes people take advantage of a person who becomes zero in front of others. If we will not walk erect headed with confidence then we will be bummed by others. Some selfish and ill-mannered clapper claws the person with over kindness without self-respect. So to live with dignity and honour a person should have confidence and a little attitude.
Family and Friends/ Relationship:
Relationships are the niche in which we live. We are mostly affected by the feelings and thoughts about relations whether they are blood relations like siblings or the relations which we make by comparing ourselves with others. Family is like the branches of a single tree or the parts of the body. If one part will be harmed or will be in pain others will not be okay. They don't need to feel the same pain but their functionality and behavior will be affected.
Friends are born not made as we do not find everyone to be friends, this bond is made up by matching chemistry, matching feelings and matching thoughts. There are some feelings and guidance which we cannot take from family but they can be granted by a friend. We can freely share everything with partners without the feeling that we will be blamed or will be cursed. We always expect a positive energy boost from friends. They Transit our tears into smiles. We through our sorrows in dustbins by sharing it with friends and feel much lighter.
Conclusion:
Everyone has his thoughts and ways to live and it's the freedom given to him by his religion and rules. So I used my right to express everything good from my point of view. I appreciate it if you would like to comment on it whether you want to criticize me or make me correct my misconception.
May you have a happy week ahead with a bundle of happiness. Goodbye