Valentine is at the corner, and people are talking about love being in the air, but for me, "Sorry, no, thanks. I will use my noise mask. Sometimes I ask myself, Is love enough to build a lasting relationship in the age where things like "prenuptial agreement" happen?
Prenuptial Agreement: an agreement made between two people before marrying that establishes rights to property and support in the event of divorce or death.
Before we dive deeper into the ocean of discussion, I would like you to meet the writer of this blog. My name is Fashtioluwa, Hive's favorite alien from Mars.
Love should be enough, shouldn’t it? In the midst of romance and commitment, the idea of introducing a prenuptial agreement can feel like a harsh dose of reality. It raises questions about trust, security, and the true nature of love. The concept of signing a legal document that outlines financial arrangements in the event of a divorce can overshadow the warmth and affection that characterize the journey toward marriage.
Now let's imagine this. You are in love with someone; you can go to the moon and back for them; you already talk about how many kids you want and the place you would like to go for vacations. Everything seems to be going well, then your partner says something like this
"Before we can get married, I would like you to sign this document. It states that in the event of a divorce, you will not receive any claims to the property I acquire on my own. You should keep your own money so that you have something to spend in case we separate. Additionally, you are not permitted to drive the expensive car more than 10 kilometers away from our house. If we do divorce, I will retain custody of the children, so there will be no need for child support."
and the rules go on, tell me, how will you feel?
The debate surrounding prenuptial agreements highlights the complexity of modern relationships. Today, some individuals date primarily for financial reasons, aiming to marry their partner for a few years before divorcing to potentially become wealthy, perhaps even making it onto the Forbes list. While many argue that a prenup serves as a crucial safeguard—protecting assets and providing financial clarity in the event of a separation—others contend that it may undermine the trust and commitment that are fundamental to love. Don't you agree?
The fact remains that if the couples are true to each other, love each other, trust each other, and would do anything to protect each other, then there wouldn't be a need for prenuptial agreements. The thought of my partner parting ways from me is already heartbreaking without it happening. It almost brought tears to my eyes. If she would go, she can go with my life too. "That kind of love."
In a world where love is both a powerful force and a vulnerable state, the idea of signing a prenuptial agreement can stir up conflicting emotions and beliefs. It challenges us to confront our fears, insecurities, and expectations within the context of a romantic partnership. This will prompt us to ask ourselves, "Am I going into a relationship with this person for love or for normal human benefits?"
Thanks for reading. Things like this are not on Mars. Till we meet again.
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