Hello everyone

Making new friends is like setting sail on the ocean having every wave with opportunities. The more friends you have the more life will be easy for you because they help you in every situation and are present for you in every worst situation. This is what we read in books or is shown in dramas or movies, but today we will look at the real life.

It was the first day of my university when i was in search of my department and a guy named haider helped me in that, moreover i got to know that he is also from my area which paved the way to our friendship. Guys don't need any reason to become friends, just make them meet for two or three times and they will be brother in arms. Once i was travelling towards my home from university and the passenger sitting on my left became one of my buddies because we spent more than 3 hours with eachother. Haha

I don't go for making new friends they just drop in. Take an example of @tahastories1 , he was my class fellow but now when we met on hive, he is my chuddy buddy (brother) friends. Here is another real example which is of @dlmmqb i always have been scolded by him in start when i joined hive but as the time passed we now talk for hours in personal (it happens rarely). Well, the list is long but i don't want to disturb everyone so in essence the thing is that you just have to arrange a tea and you will see that every guy present there will be turning to a good friend after sometime. Haha

That was a good side of the whole chapter but do you think that we should make a number of new friends and our social circle should be large. ? Well, it depends but i would never choose a big friend circle because this world is filled with different nature people.

A few months ago when i was sitting in home my brother told me a news that A friend killed the other one because the other one got successful and the first one remained unsuccessful in life. What the hell was that.... I was shocked after listening that news, it is ok if one betrays a friend or doesn't appear at times when his friends need him (as compared to this incident it is ok) but you killed your own friend just because he got successful more than you? The turning point is that his friend was from a rural area and he was a city boy. They became friend through a game which they used to play online.

I thought at that time what if he just kept it to himself and the chat was ok if it was limited to online game chat. Why need to increase it to meetups and the result is in front of you... I think this one reason is more than enough why i prefer keeping few friends. Also having more friends means more availability and i don't have that much time. I have less friends but proudly i can say that those will be available everywhere i need them. I have seen people regretting their big social circles because they sometimes don't even find time for themselves...

I wonder what do you people think about this. Is it good to have a small social circle because you can't reach everywhere and also you can't know everyone or one should go for a large friend circle. Your suggestions and opinions are always welcome in the comments section because i always respond to them

Well, this was all from my side.

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