Do people really change their character and lifestyle to blend to their friend's character and lifestyle?
I know a girl "A" who isn't fair in any way but chose to bleach because her friend "B" is fair and loves fair people.
Girl A had an injury, luckily wasn't very bad but it was difficult to heal and she was advised to stop bleaching which she did but was afraid to face her friend anymore.
Her clueless friend "B" saw her one day and nonchalantly asked her why she is now dark.
She was bold enough to tell her that she has been dark but didn't mention how she was bleaching to suit her taste which almost destroyed her.
The friendship wasn't genuine so it didn't last but girl "A" was still reaching out to girl "B" because of the favours she gets from her.
Deep down she enjoys that rush of build up lies and deceit they share.
To her she is used to it and no one else would accept her truthfully.
There are some sacrifices one mustn't make to keep something going if it's not genuine.
You don't have to loose yourself to hold it still.
Because once you are lost, you are quickly replaced and life goes on.
Yes, they say relationships and friendships comes with a sacrifice.
The sacrifice in this case is changing that one bad character to a good one to build each other not the other way round.
What determines friendship is when we have things in common and agree in similar direction or when you add a positive influence in my life.
Not when we don't even understand each other or value each other.
Friendship isn't when you can't be proud of who you are when you are with the person, it's not pretence.
Friendship is about building each other to be better person in life, supporting each other to a good direction.
Friendship is being open and truthful to one another without fear of judgement or misunderstanding.
Genuine friendship is not forced,it happens naturally with a good peaceful flow.
Thank you very much for reading.
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