The first advice is not to take everything so seriously, life can sometimes be very hard and complicated, sometimes there are things that don't work no matter how much love and effort we put into them, that's why the best thing is not to stress so much
Wow. You opened hot!! I love how you put this. I definitely need to take this advice myself.
Your closing was on point as well. There's this thing I hear many people say very frequently - That you can't love another person if you don't love yourself. I think that is very connected to what you're saying. As much we love our partners, family and friends, it's important the we have our own separate lives and identities away from them, so that in the event that things were to go bad, we wouldl still be able to exist and be happy without me.
A little tip I want to share with you if you don't mind?
Your writing is great, and your style has a good personality attached to it. Even though English is not your first language, you're doing an amazing job writing in it.However, the punctuations are a bit off, and it makes it a bit difficult to understand you properly. You could pass your post through grammarly when you're done writing to help you fix the punctuations and things related with gramnmar. I think that would really improve overall engagements with your posts. You're doing great already with the way you write, so I can only imagine the improvements that'll bring.
Have a great day, now :)