During our forefathers' time, the men provide and protect their families while the women take care of the home and children.
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Providing for the family deals with the food, clothes, and other things the wife and children may need while taking care of the home deals with the laundry and kitchen.
I never hear that they follow their wives to the kitchen to help in the preparation of food, by the time they come back home from work, they are already tired and expect their wives to serve them their food and afterward relax. Most of the women are full housewives and the only time they had to do something outside the home is probably when they want to harvest crops on the farm.
A lot has drastically changed with the new generations, a few years ago, a friend of mine [female] got a proposal from a guy who lives abroad, he wanted them to get married and he would sponsor my friend to the UK to reunite with him but on one condition, which is they are going to split the bills 50 50 in their marriage, she turned down the guy's proposal because she has not been out of the country and that is not a norm in our country, I also felt that was weird because that was my first time hearing such a thing as well but later on, I started to hear it is a norm for husby and wife to split the bills abroad because of too much expense and both also need to work to be able to run the family.
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I do not like such an idea though because it is going to affect them one way or the other, for example, the house chores and preparation of food, if you are splitting the bills 50-50 with your partner, you can't expect them to handle taking of the home alone, you also have to split the chores 50 50 to balance things.
A man has no business in the kitchen but to earn that, you must not lack in providing for your wife and do not think about splitting bills with her, everyone should stick to their duty.
Some people would say a woman should not end up in the kitchen, everyone has a choice, and a woman who doesn't want to end her life in the kitchen or taking care of her man and children, then probably find a man who can cope with that or remain single... I believe our women should be well protected, cared for, and showered with love, and their only duty is to take care of us and our home. As for the men, you have no business in the kitchen, go out and load those bags! so you can have enough to take care of her and the children.*
The only time I think it is necessary to enter the kitchen as a man is when your wife is pregnant or sick.
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