Marriage is the union of a man and woman to become husband and wife, many people do not really understand the importance of getting to know their lover before getting married to them, it is after marriage their eyes will open and they get stuck forever with someone that does not fit them or try to find a way out of it, I guess this is one of the reasons why people divorce.
It is a forever deal, so there are some things we need to check and confirm before we make someone our life partner to avoid problems in the future.
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Some people shy away from this topic but it is one of the most important things that keeps a relationship and marriage, we have some people who believe in no sex before marriage, it is right when it comes to religion but in this civilized world, it is wrong and I will be backing up my claim with some points.
It is essential to know our partner's libido, it is wrong for a person with a low libido to get married to someone with a high libido because it will lead to sex starvation from the partner with a low libido which can lead to the one with a high libido into extramarital affairs, this is one of the reasons married people cheat when their partner keeps denying them of their right in the bedroom.
Also, there is a new to know your partner's size and see if it is your taste and can do the work, not wait until marriage night and start feeling disappointed.
If your partner does not like to have sex with you and you have to persuade them all the time, you guys are not compatible and do not rely on the hope that they will change after marriage because it will only worsen when other responsibilities that come with marriage show up.
Do not fall for this statement that often comes from the female gender, We are not yet married They often say this when they are trying to avoid some things, for example, if they don't want to help you to do something, they will say I can't do this until we are married, have you paid my bride price and other words similar to this, what is the assurance that they will do it after marriage because they can just come up with another excuse, when a lady is committed in a relationship, she will do all those things without you even asking her to do it, those who keep saying we are not yet married may not even plan to marry you and only keeping you because you benefit them in some way and when they are done with you, they will leave you broken....
Supposedly they plan to carry on with the marriage for a reason best known to them, you will have a big problem in the future because they will still find a way to avoid doing those things for you, so it is better to avoid getting married to someone who is not committed to you.
Men love to be respected in a relationship, it is proof that we are the alpha.
In cases where your soon-to-be wife doesn't respect you, your words and never listens to you, but only doing what she likes, you should know such a person is not the right one for you, imagine the disrespect when you ain't married and it will be tripled when you finally get married to such person.
some factors could make your woman disrespectful to you, not having money is one of them, and not being able to provide for her basic needs could result in it so as a man, before you think of getting married, make sure you are financially stable.
When we love someone, we tend to ignore all their flaws but some things should not be ignored, never rely on the hope that they will change as time goes on, it rarely happens.
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