Violence comes from the devil. Satan is the one who makes people have hatred for one another. Domestic violence comes from the devil. It is the work of Satan. Hatred doesn't come from God. It is evil. There is no evil thing from God. God does not teach people how to do bad. So, hatred, violence, killings and all those manner of things come from the devil.
People should learn to love one another. Couples should learn to live together happily. There shouldn't be a cause of violence in our homes. We should love each other with true love. Violence is not good. Violence is evil. Domestic violence should be avoided. What the Bible teaches us is that husbands should love their wives and that the wives should submit to their husbands in all things.
When there is the fear of God in the home, there won't be anything like violence. We would be able to dwell with each other in understanding.