God has control over the destiny of a man who submits to Him. If we submit to God; if we obey His instructions, he will have control over our destiny. God can control and guide our destiny if we submit unto Him.
When God created the first man, he gave them the power of will. They had the power to choose weather they will obey God's commandments or not. God gave them commandments but he also gave them a free choice. They had the free will to choose what they want to do.
The obedient will be led by God. But the disobedient will suffer for their disobedience. When we obey God's commandments we will enjoy the benefits of being obedient. But if we choose to disobey the commandments of God, there is punishment for being disobedient.
For God to have the control over our destiny, we must submit ourselves to him. We must follow his instructions. When we obey Him, He will guide us on what we should do. If someone won't be obedient, God cannot force his will upon that person. For our lives to enjoy the provisions of God leading us, let us choose to obey His commandments.