Everymomet of life, I get to experience both the good and bad part of life. I remember when I was small, my dad once told me we can never run away from mistakes instead we face it and keep moving even though it seems so though.
All this times I have been living in secret to myself that I am strong, i and I can easily forgive anyone that did wrong to me which is all part of life, but there are some injuries that are really hard to forget, even though I kept running for a soft land. People said, with time the pain will heal but the truth is, time does not heal the pain instead it causes regrets especially when we tend to hold memories of the person, like pictures or videos.
The mind is like a storm, sometimes you can control it, sometimes you cant, sometimes we tend to distract our mind either with people or something's around and trust me, it ain't the way it seems. One thing I value about a brain is the ability to multiply our thoughts over something around us and make the right decision so we dont get lost in it.
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Emotional healing is about releasing the pain, resentment and bitterness tied to our experiences it could be as a result of a relationship or a relative experience I call it like a poison from the same vine, because its relay hard for the brain for forget this experiences especially when the person is so attached to us. Basically I dont think we can heal without relaxing the person thought from our mind, It hard. The brain tend to remember the past bad experience than the positive ones except we surround ourself with happy people which is why I will always want to commend social media.
When I am lost in thoughts or emotionally down I just play songs and listen to it till when I sleep off, it might be a gospel song or Random songs artist that comes to my mind. I understand this is part of life the sad experience and the positive ones. also when I feel my thoughts are overwhelming, I leave everything to God to take over and trust me this has really helped me a lot In so many ways.
The Mind, heart and everything can be dangerous if we dont tend to understand ourself and weakness also, if it is mine, it will always come, I dont chase I attract, this is my current though of life. I always believe my greatest regret will be failing at the end of it all.
Presently, I find it hard to forgive people because of my past experiences but this is life, I just have to let go so I dont regret my past actions or anything that may want to occur again. I accept it as part of life and move on, which is why I will want everyone to embrace any negative things that happens and taking it as part of life and just moving on so we may not regret any decision we make.
This is my entry to Hive learners week 178 Episode 2 weekly prompt.
