A TRIBUTE TO MY DAD

in Hive Learners6 months ago

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This topic is forever going to be one of my best contents because just by reading the topic made so emotional, it brought back alot of my memories that I never wish to forget till I also leave this earth.
This content is about the man who made it possible for me to be here, my first love, my sugar daddy, a man of great vision and passion. My dad was a man with a soft heart, he loved to help people regardless of the person was, as far as he has and even when he had little he was already to share, a man with the most loving heart, a man that stood firmly on his words.
He was a man that took every body along, he took other people’s children like his, he was also a funny person too, never a dull moments with him.

He was the only male child among eight girls from his mother but also had plenty siblings from his father, this made our extended family to be very large, my father’s name was “Victor” but was called “Teacher” in his community back then and even up till now my siblings and I are called Teachers children, he was given that name because he loved to teach people. Even as ship captain, my dad still went abroad to school to have different results which in turn his holding the local company firmly without being dissolved even after his death.

My dad meant a great deal to me because he was the sweetest father I could ever get, although he didn’t own the whole world but he made sure he gave my siblings and I the whole world, I love him because firstly he was my earthly father and no one in the world could ever stand for that, he provided everything in his power for my siblings and I, whatever I asked I got it almost immediately, with my dad, loving a man was so easy.. he was a simple easy going person yet made his decisions straight.

If there’s something I learned from Dad is that I have to work hard to give my unborn children the very best, because my Dad did give me that although he wasn’t alive to see me graduate from the university, but I made sure to make him proud even in death, I also learnt how to be calm when angry from dad, he was someone that didn’t like to hurt people’s feelings with harsh words, but I also got his bad mouth..lol!

If I’m being honest, I don’t think that I have moved from my father’s death, because it was such an impromptu death, he wasn’t sick nor was there any sign of death, we were just called one night that he was dead and he had been taken to morgue, most times I think about him alot because we didn’t get to say our good byes, infact we weren’t even happy with each other due to some misunderstanding, and till date I regret having that issue with my dad because we didn’t even get settle before he left… I try not to think about him so much because I did just end up sharing tears uncontrollably.

THANKS FOR EEADING💞🌺

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Sorry about your dad. I can't even imagine the pain of losing a father because it's only those who have experienced such would know how it feels. He was a good father and despite the misunderstanding you had with him before his death, I'm sure he still loved you very much

Sure he was a good father, and I hope to see him again, thanks for your engagement

Hmmm sorry about his sudden demise lady. The loss of one of ones parents is like a deep hole that can't be filled up.

Exactly my feelings right now but it is well😇

My Heartfelt condolences,
It's a very painful one whenever we loss any loved one to deat
Be strong dear

Thank you😇, it’s not easy but I’m pushing✅

I can't say I understand your pain fully, but I can feel them in your letters. I don't know if it's any consolation, but I'm sure wherever your dad soul is, he's watching and Happy for the person you're becoming

Thanks for kind words, they are appreciated 🙏🏽