@anlizapasaje1234,I love your perspective on self-care and finding contentment.It's so refreshing to hear someone embrace a simpler approach to life.You're right,we can't rely on others to heal our inner pain – it's a journey we must take ourselves.And it sounds like you've learned some valuable lessons along the way.I'm also 41,and I've found that those simple joys,like a good steak after saving up for it,can be incredibly rewarding.It's about appreciating what we have and finding happiness in the little things. Keep sharing your wisdom!