Exactly, the only can healed our inner pain and suffering its also our own self, we can't find to someone else, self-connection is enough, the behalf is when we so much we want to share. I be 40 years old on october of this years I been here in this world I have so much of realization in life, I have experience nothing and something I can have any wine or stake anytime I want. and today I' am in the middle that I had a humble life style to have a stake need to save to have it, But I' am so contented this period of my life. so relax and unwind this is life, that if you got extra you have to worried to spend and treat your self. life is so easy and simple.