As we journey through life, we encounter many crossroads that shape us into the individuals we are meant to be. Some decisions are easy to make, while others are tough because of their complexities. However, one thing is certain: growth often steams out from making tough choices. I've come to realize that the most significant decisions I've made have been those that have pushed me out of my comfort zone and forced me to reevaluate my priorities.
One particular pattern I've noticed in myself is the tendency to assume the role of a "Saviour" in the lives of people around me. I've often found myself going out of my way to help others, even when it discomforting and Inconvenient. At first, it felt fulfilling to be needed and appreciated by others. However, over time, I began to feel drained and burnt out. It dawned on me that I wasn't doing anyone any favors by overextending myself. In fact, I was doing more harm than good.
Learning to say no was a crucial step in my journey. It wasn't about being selfish or uncaring; it was about knowing my limit and not going beyond, putting myself first while others follow and acknowledging the fact that, I can't be always be there for others. I had to accept that I couldn't pour from an empty cup.
This realization was liberating, but it wasn't without its challenges. There were times when I felt guilty for not being able to help someone in need. I would replay conversations in my head, wondering if I could have done more. But I knew that I couldn't sustain myself if I continued down that path. I had to remind myself that it's okay to say no, that it's okay to prioritize my own needs.
The story of Jesus has been a source of inspiration for me in this journey. He did what he could, and he left the rest. He didn't try to save everyone or fix every problem. He prioritized his mission and his relationships. I strive to emulate this example, doing what I can and making peace with myself when I can do more.
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