Live in the clouds / My entry Ladies of Hive Community Contest #284 Edition (ENG - ESP)

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I am an extremely distracted person; I have a friend who nicknamed me "Despiste" and sometimes someone suggests that they should repeat or remind me of some information because: "remember that Lisy lives in the clouds."I have never felt it as an offense; I know that there is love and respect for me in those people.

​I imagine that, perhaps, at some point someone has taken the trouble to not like me well and, when referring to me, has used derogatory language. However, thanks to my "carelessness", I still haven't found out. So, if you ask me what I would do if I knew, then nothing: I would continue being me, calm and happy in my way of enjoying ignoring that poor person.

I have three children. The oldest, Gabriela, is 26 years old; He no longer lives with me because he decided to emigrate with his father and now lives in Tampa. She had a relationship for several years that little by little crept into my home, so I already experienced being a mother-in-law a little bit. He was saved: I have a good character and I prefer to be seen as a friend and not an enemy. The more friends, the better; so I can be aware without them feeling uncomfortable.

​I like to get along with everyone and live with a peaceful head. My grandmother always repeated: "Don't do to others what you don't like them to do to you," and that is my motto and my way of living.

Thank you, friend @ifarmgirl, for your proposal. A nice and sincere hug to all.



Soy una persona en extremo distraída; tengo un amigo que me puso de apodo "Despiste" y, a veces, alguien sugiere que deben repetirme o recordarme alguna información porque: "recuerden que Lisy vive en las nubes". Nunca lo he sentido como una ofensa; sé que hay cariño y respeto por mí en esas personas.

​Imagino que, quizás, en algún momento alguien se haya tomado el trabajo de no quererme bien y, al referirse a mí, haya utilizado un lenguaje despectivo. Sin embargo, gracias a mi "despiste", aún no me he enterado. Así que, si me preguntas qué haría en caso de saberlo, pues nada: seguiría siendo yo, tranquila y feliz en mi modo de disfrutar el ignorar a esa pobre persona.

​Tengo tres hijos. La mayor, Gabriela, tiene 26 años; ya no vive conmigo pues decidió emigrar con su papá y ahora vive en Tampa. Ella tuvo una relación de varios años que poco a poco se me fue colando en casa, así que ya viví un poco eso de ser suegra. Él se salvó: tengo buen carácter y prefiero ser vista como amiga y no como enemiga. Mientras más amiga, mejor; así puedo estar al tanto sin que ellos se sientan incómodos.

​Me gusta llevarme bien con todos y vivir con la cabeza en paz. Mi abuela siempre repetía: "No le hagas a los demás lo que no te gusta que te hagan a ti", y ese es mi lema y mi forma de vivir.

​Gracias, amiga @ifarmgirl, por tu propuesta. Un abrazo lindo y sincero a todos.



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Ignoring people who might make derogatory comments is undoubtedly the best way to enjoy yourself and maintain your peace of mind. Wise words from your grandmother; it reflects that you have been a good mother-in-law. Have a lovely night.

Ignorar a gente que haría algún comentario despectivo, sin duda es la mejor forma de disfrutar y mantenerte la tranquilidad, sabías palabras de tu abuela, refleja que has, sido una buena suegra, que tengas una linda noche,
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Gracias por tus palabras. Feliz noche también para usted. Saludos.

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That's an interesting nickname :) If you're happy, you wouldn't want to waste your time on negative chatters. I love your perspective on being a friend rather than an enemy. Your son-in-law is blessed to have you as a mother-in-law.💖

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