Good evening Ladies and gentlemen,
It's yet another week with another very important prompt contest, @ladiesofhive community prompt #284. What are you like as a mother in law?
I'm excited about this community, because most of the topics we solve here are the real everyday issues of life. Therefore, we are very visionary to have had such ideas and initiatives , solving real life issues..
Question two
What are you like as a mother in law?
#ladiesofhive prompt contest #284
Thank you so much for these two thoughtful engagements, @ifiamgirl..
All around the world, the relationships between daughters in laws and mothers in laws has been on mostly negative experiences and reports. Such reports are always in the news to some extent that movie actors have acted so many versions of such relationships and people keep rejecting such cat and dog unions.
That's not withstanding, in the other hand, many of such relationships are moving smoothly without any hinderances, the two parties enjoying themselves and each other.
Concerning me, the relationship between me as a mother in law and my daughter in law shall be smooth, admirable and a positive point for reference by everyone that will be opportuned to know us or come closer us because I definitely know the rules and the boundaries, I will surely never interrupt, interfere or break into her privacy, boundaries and personal life. Respect is a reciprocal
I will respect her because she's a woman like me, one day I was also just like her. She wants her marriage and new family to flourish and be respected. I will surely abide by her rules in her home
She is trying to learn and to build those things I have passed through or passed from. I will rather help her to build her new home for my peace, my son's peace and happiness for all of us. I will be helpful to her by her choices and decisions. She has come into my family to stay, as I was in another family and had been able to build mine and stayed.
Knowing fully well that I can not marry my own son, why should I not allow her use her initiative to develop her own home with my son?
It's very simple, what I don't want others to do against me, why should I apply such on someone else's home. The truth is that, whenever I'm around their home, I know it clearly that I'm a stranger. I can't interrupt, intrude or act as if I have forgotten that my son now has another woman in his life and not me totally and fully as it used to be before.
We are both planting seeds and building generations by every of our singular behavior and characters at all times. Whatever we sow is waiting for us in the nearest future. As a good Christian I already know these rules and principles of God the Creator of quality marriages, doing anything the other way round is disobedience to God. I will not try it.
In conclusion,
I will be a peaceful, respectful, and a helpful mother in law to my son's wife and the new family, it takes two to tangle.
This is my response to this week's prompt contest .
Ladies of hive community question two LOH #284.
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