loss forever felt no such thing "you get over it", you don't, simply carry on remembering the good times!
People really have no idea telling one that you'll 'get over it'.
I am careful, and have even taken Cynthia and Bonginkosi with me when going a little further afield.
We must try and meet sometime though, anywhere near you, if you can suggest somewhere nice that way?
Life is tough right now for so many people, I truly hope your son finds something.
All we can do is to take it day by day, and not fret trying to solve all of life's problems in one day.