Having a family bonding is one of the best and greatest weapon to have a good family with best communication and more interaction with them. With a family, you can interact with them, talk to them if you have problems, and they are always by our side even if we are at our lowest.
Do I think that I am a good brother in my family?
I could say that I am somewhat not a good brother to my family, although becoming a brother is also good but there are many responsibilities that I will make in the family.
There is one thing that I regret of becoming a brother and that is the time that I was still a college student and still studying. At that time, my mother is an abroad, my mother is giving me allowance for the month and that allowance is enough for the whole month and there are times that it is not enough. I think at that time, my mother gave me spare allowance for myself because I always said to my mom that give more extra for my allowance because of this and that.
Yeah, I got my allowance after my mother successfully send allowance to me and after a while, one of my siblings that is my brother is chatting me through one of the social media application and he is asking about he doesn't have any money and he needs money for himself. I didn't believe him because they were also given money from my mom, too.
I said that maybe that's a prank that you will need money and he said that it isn't a prank and he really needs money. I was hesitating because he always had money from my mom and I thought that my dad gave him instruction to do that and that money that I have is also enough even if there's an allowance because of some projects that I need to work one but I didn't mind my brother at that time.
After a few months, I suddenly realize that my actions were not good at that time even if it's money. My brother really needs the money and I couldn't even tell him that and revert the time to gave him some.
That it one thing that I couldn't bring up to them even in my family because I'm really scared to do that and I only shared this to my blog. Today, that I am working now, I am giving them the things that they want because I want to give them the things that they want the best that I could.
I'm trying to make the best out of them to become a good brother to them and becoming the best, too.