Por tal razón esta será mi presentación en la comunidad de @holos-lotus.
En la iniciativa @mariannalis nos invita a responder tres interrogantes. Les confieso que cada vez que las leo me parece que están muy relacionadas o, al menos, en mis respuestas las veo como tres partes esenciales del cuerpo como son el corazón, el cerebro y la sangre.
Para continuar debo decir que este ha sido uno de los años más difíciles de mi vida porque tuve que asumir decisiones radicales que cambiaron mi dinámica de vida y, en consecuencia, la de toda mi familia. Esa decisión de la que hablo tuvo que ver con la salida definitiva de Cuba, mi país de origen y ese es el mayor agradecimiento en el 2023: Poder salir de la situación difícil en la que vivía y llegar a Uruguay un país que me ha acogido como una hija.
Puede que haya una contradicción, pero no la hay. Debo agradecer el poder estar con mi esposo en un lugar donde el trabajo nos permite vivir, cubrir nuestras necesidades y, a la vez, poder ayudar a los nuestros.
Lo anterior significó que tuviese que asumir el aprendizaje más importante de mi vida y es el poder adaptarte a condiciones diferentes a las tuyas, trabajar, aun en aquello que no estudiaste, para satisfacer necesidades personales y seguir adelante. Este es un aprendizaje de vida que algunos le llaman resiliencia.
Reconozco que ha sido un proceso difícil y bien duro porque no estar con los tuyos, no ver a la gente con la que creciste, tus vecinos, tus amigos es bien difícil y, aunque pasen varios años la añoranza por los tuyos y por lo tuyo estará siempre ahí, pero, adaptarse, crecer y seguir adelante es el mayor aprendizaje que puedes experimentar.
Mi mayor deseo para el 2024 sería poder tener un hijo, porque como mujer es lo que no he podido cumplir, pero sé que a estas alturas de la vida es casi imposible que pueda lograrlo. Mi esposo y yo estamos sometidos a tratamientos y pruebas de todo tipo, pero hasta ahora todos los resultados indican que nos será imposible poder concebir un niño y traerlo al mundo.
Esta es mi participación en la iniciativa y espero haber cumplido con las interrogantes.
Importante: Las fotos son de mi propiedad tirados con mi Samsung J1.
El traductor utilizado fue el Deepl Translate.
ENGLISH
I have only been in this ecosystem for seven days and I think it is one of the most enriching experiences of my life. I am still learning and, because of the study I do, in the little time I have I found that @estelacha had invited me to participate in an initiative whose theme seemed to me very suggestive.
For that reason this will be my presentation in the @holos-lotus community.
In the initiative @mariannalis invites us to answer three questions. I confess that every time I read them it seems to me that they are closely related or, at least, in my answers I see them as three essential parts of the body such as the heart, the brain and the blood.
To continue, I must say that this has been one of the most difficult years of my life because I had to make radical decisions that changed my life dynamics and, consequently, that of my whole family. That decision I am talking about had to do with my definitive departure from Cuba, my country of origin, and that is the greatest gratitude in 2023: To be able to leave the difficult situation in which I was living and arrive in Uruguay, a country that has welcomed me as a daughter.
There may be a contradiction, but there is none. I am grateful to be able to be with my husband in a place where work allows us to live, cover our needs and, at the same time, be able to help our family.
This meant that I had to take on the most important learning in my life and that is to be able to adapt to conditions different from your own, to work, even in what you did not study, to meet personal needs and to move forward. This is a life learning that some call resilience.
I recognize that it has been a difficult and very hard process because not being with your loved ones, not seeing the people you grew up with, your neighbors, your friends is very difficult and, even if several years go by, the longing for your loved ones and for what is yours will always be there, but, adapting, growing and moving forward is the greatest learning you can experience.
My greatest wish for 2024 would be to be able to have a child, because as a woman that is what I have not been able to accomplish, but I know that at this point in life it is almost impossible for me to achieve it. My husband and I are undergoing treatments and tests of all kinds, but so far all the results indicate that it will be impossible for us to conceive a child and bring him into the world.
This is my participation in the initiative and I hope I have fulfilled the questions.
Important: The photos are my own taken with my Samsung J1.
The translator used was Deepl Translate.
