I totally feel you, budgeting ain't fun at all when you don't have anything to budget. I would challenge you to be a bit more included in the finances though, so that when (let's hope not) something would happen at least you know what's up. I always tell my bf the same, check the sheet man, you can see what's still open this month and what's left. He never checks it, lol.
!LADY
Good night, off to bed here!