Hello Everyone in this amazing community
I hope this post met you well,
Life is beautiful, more beautiful when you have loved ones around you to spend the day of your life with.
This is why family is a very important aspect of life. Being born in a family gives you a sense of belonging, an identity, a special Love and care.
No Matter the relationship you have with your family, there is always this bonding filled with love, respect, discipline and responsibility.
Families looks after eachother and they also protects, no matter the circumstances your family always stay around,
This is why the family is A important aspect in a child's life.
Being Adopted means that your father and mother are not your real parents.
The process of adopting children comes in many ways
You can adopt a child at the orphanage Homes, which is usually the most popular form of getting a child adopted
What if I was actually Adopted?
Honestly if I found out my parents adopted me and all my other siblings are the biological children of my parents, I will be very disturbed about the news at first because it would be a very shocking news to me, but in the long run I will accept my fate and tell my adopted parents that I really love them as the parents they are to me.
My parents showered me with love, care and protection from when I was a little kid till now, honestly they did a great Job that no other parents can do,
I will be forever Grateful to them.
Another action I will take is to know about my real parents: haven heard about the news of me being adopted, the next thing I will do is to look for my real parents if they are still alive:
This is what would keep ringing in my heart after the Unbelievable news of my adoption. I will try to enquire about where I was adopted from, from my parents, they have to tell me what really happened and why they did what they did, this might actually be for closure or Good bye.
I know many may think I can't actually say goodbye to them, but after finding out their location, I will ask them why they didn't even bother to check on me since all this days.
Will I be able to forgive my real parents?
I will be willing to forgive them, yeah as a Christians that is what God have told us to. I will forgive them regardless of the reasons he gave.
It is definitely going to be a very difficult feeling but I will forgive them even though their reasons of Letting Go is not reasonable.
All I know is that my adopted parents did a great job and I will talk to them about still being my parents.
For me honestly handling situations like this would be a very hard things to do, considering the fact that they left me out to be adopted by another parent.
If my adopted parents are still good with being my real parents, I will love to continue to be their child.
This is exactly how I will handle this situation.
