Same to me here, whenever am in public i don't sing loud because if I try to sing loud people will run😂😂😂, even sometimes two of my cousins that have the sweet voice to sing normally insult me that my voice is bad that I should stop singing, though it use to pain me but I don't use to heed to their warning. And about your house rule never stay out late, my grandma always tell us because am also in children chores group then and we normally close by 6:00 or 7:00, so she will tell me and my cousin sister that before 5:30 we should be home because she hate it whenever someone come home late.