It's a shame that your Mother never developed a bond with you and left you wondering why? Why the neglect or was there some other reasons? What ever the true reason it is in the past. You didn't carry her baggage and already know that you won't neglect you children in the same way and love them unconditionally.
I wish you a Happy Mother's day @sarimanok ❤️
First, I was born out of wedlock because they said that my mom was too young to marry at 14. Also, grandpa was a I WW US Vet and hated my father's father. It was said that he even tried to shot my father for impregnating my mom. Lol! So they tried to separate them and even hide me under the custody of my uncle who was mom's elder brother. Sad to say, I only met my biological father a week after my mom's burial. That was the irony of it. When I grew up with my uncle's family, they were thinking all the while that I was in "good hands" huh! Funny, right? I was treated like one of our helpers. Lol!