As for me, there's a lot of loads on my shoulder right now and even before. I'm just glad that I have a work now that can sustain the needs within the family but this is not enough that's why I'm practicing the called Delayed Gratification for now. I just can't spend money now even if I have work because it will still affect us financially.

When it comes to it I usually handle it alone because I think that it's better that way specially those loads that I can handle on my own. Telling them to others will just make it more complicated than it is.

Through the years of having and battling my loads I learned how to be resilient in tough times plus having the attitude of not over reacting to those.
That's all and I hope that one day we can unload those loads without worrying anymore.
Good day..