As I always comment @meraki7578 @ladiesofhive every time I talk about the month of love and friendship for us J.R., and I, it has always been a commercial day, I think that true love happens every day, and every day is to give and receive love.
At the end of so many years together we have discovered that well-nourished love produces peace, and stability, it is an exciting psychological, emotional, biochemical and neurophysiologist process, and in that way my husband and I have built day by day our pure connection, from respect, patience and a lot of communication during these 47 years of love, passion, understanding in marriage.
Our love is made to reinvent us every day…
Love requires not only intense passions and emotions, but also sensation, stability and peace. We always say what has to happen without premeditation... it will be what we do well according to the moment in our emotions, even if they are negative.
Intense passion with peace and tranquilized...is LIFE... it's pure connection, for us!!
Undoubtedly there are moments when passion passes, and it is faster than most people assume. After that there is true love, if that does not happen it is because the couple had no livelihood.
Our formula to keep that pink flame of love alive is in the details, in verbal, written or sensual communication, in tolerance, good humor, empathy and above all in respect and trust. Mischief and eroticism "spice up the chicken soup, but they are not the substance at the bottom of the pot.”
Generally, this February 14th we book in some new restaurant that we would like to get to know, all this is to remember that, although we use February 14th to celebrate love, to have an early dinner, so that they don't like the food badly, because for the elderly like us if we do it too late sometimes we get indigestible... haha.
Today, as every day, I thank God for uniting me to my eternal boyfriend and that he is my husband. There is no one on earth more perfect for me than him, he is my everything, my great companion in this journey that is called life.
This year I particularly want to thank my husband for his patience, support, closeness, despite my deep sadness and being broken inside, for the loss of very close affections, he gets the way to be by my side.
I pray to God that we will reach the last day of our lives together, and thank you for loving me even in my worst version.
Enjoying the month of LOVE & FRIENDSHIP, let's go for 47 more years.
Happiness is in all our relationships, so let's value friendship, let's embrace it and if it is accompanied by love and humor better!!! And how do you enjoy it??
Janitze…
Separator made with Canva by @janitzearratia
Any images in this post are taken with my iPhone 12, the Infinix pro-note 30 or with the camera eighties Rolleiflex 2.8 f, and edited with Canva
Translation with |DeepL
