Relationship is a journey between parties of opposite sex, that is to say, in a sane society. For an ideal relationship, it happens between two pastured minds who have agreed to give up many things to make sure that the two build a lasting union together. For any relationship to work, there are certain ingredients that need to be in place. Some of these ingredients include, but are not limited to, openness, trust, team play spirit, and more.When I talk about openness, this has to do with being truthful to the partner despite all. In this case there is no keeping of secrets, that is to say, no matter the past experience, one is willing to relate the scenario to the other without the fear of anything.
The other thing to be considered in any relationship that will work out is trust. Many relationships suffer today because there is limited or no trust at all. The partner hunts the other with the rough experiences that were shared, so he goes so far as to remind the other and finds it difficult to believe that his partner has changed.Team play is very important. This has to do with working together in unity, not that one is doing one thing while the other is doing another. When two persons who are in a working relationship work together as one, it helps them to make lots of achievements, more than those who just face individual directions.As one who has been in a married relationship for close to six years now and is just finding out that my husband has been reading my mind all this while, I will be very happy with that.
First, we have been working as one for these years. Not that we haven't had issues before, but we have grown to handle our issues. This will make me feel as if he picks the kind of model I have mediated over for these years and he is just playing out the script. Perfect love blows away any form of fear from those who are in love; there is nothing to be afraid of at all because I am not hiding anything from my partner, and if I am the one that is endowed with such an ability, I am so sure he is not hiding anything from me, so I will just play out what he wishes, and that will make things work better for us. Over time we have handled and are still handling issues of couples who are struggling with their homes.
The current challenge is that the wife got a job shortly after they got married, and after a while she changed completely and is not relating with the husband. What's happening with her and even her salary? She refused to communicate to the husband her location as she was transferred from their location to another place. Had the husband had the ability to read minds, he would know what was happening with the wife, which she refused to tell him over time.
Personally, I believe that there is nothing to hide from my partner, no matter how ugly it may seem to be. I am one person who does not believe in lies, so I say it the way it is no matter how terrible it may be, and this has helped me so much. Knowing all these, I will choose my relationship over and over again because I am finding it so smitten with my partner.
This is my participation in the Hive Learners Contest Week 162, Edition 2. Thank you for reading.
