Maternity Holiday

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I haven't discovered a worker who doesn't like holidays. A few days just to rest a bit before we continue the work again, is very important. That is the reason some people don't joke with their weekends. They feel it it the only time they have to rest after the weeks busy schedules.

Some organizations make it worse by not allowing their employees to go on leave or even take a break. My cousin got a job recently as a baker in a new eatery. She resume 7:00am and close by 9:00pm everyday, including Saturdays and Sundays. I asked why it is that stressful, but she said it is because it's a new place and they don't have enough staff yet.

To me, that's just too much. When somebody works for that long hours every day, the person may break down. I think employers are just too greedy. They don't care about the wellbeing of their staff and they feel they could always get another person to do the job because people are desperately in need of jobs.

For me as a worker, the days or moments in life that I feel deserve more free days is the maternity leave. This is something that has really affected my life. I almost died because of something as overlooked as adequate rest.

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I think after a woman gives birth, she should be given adequate time to recuperate before resuming back to work. I don't know how scientifically right this is, but I heard that after a woman gives birth, it takes the body three years to recover all the blood and other things lost during pregnancy and childbirth.

If the above is true, why then will you ask a woman that gave birth to resume work six weeks after giving birth? That is pure wickedness if you ask me. The journey of pregnancy to childbirth is not a small thing. It is a journey of life and death. It is very deep.

After I gave birth to my Son, I was to resume six weeks after. It didn't mean much to me then, because I felt I was strong. I and the baby were doing fine. so, I resumed after six weeks. Few weeks later I fell sick. It was so critical. I did series of tests I was treated but I wasn't feeling any better.

They had to run other tests like HIV and it was negative. It took sometime before I was able to get up on my own without support. I became a shadow of myself. I couldn't eat or do anything. I was scared for my life. But at least, I recovered after some weeks. That was when I realized that I had endangered my life. I didn't allow my body to heal properly before going back to stress it, just because I didn't want to be replaced.

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I understand that government workers get a six months leave after childbirth but private firms find it difficult to give their staff three months maternity leave.
I'm of the opinion that every woman get a six to nine months maternity leave just to heal and be fit to go through rigorous work again.
These are the days I feel would make more sense if I didn't have to spend them at work and be worried that my baby may be crying.

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This is my response to Hive learners community weekly featured contents on the topic; We Need More Holidays Let me know what you think about this in the comments.

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Yours truly @aunty-tosin💕💕

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You're right, private organizations would want your hands on deck always and 6 months is a far cry for them. Perhaps the government can enforce private organizations to adhere to the six months showered on government workers

Tru, if only government can enforce it on private firms, that would be great.

Let's hope so someday

You see all these private organizations are so heartless, they will never care about the worker's well-being and if you skip one day from work it will tell in your salary

It will tell in the salary oh😂
The way they would slash it will not be funny at all.
They don't just care about staff but their business.
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The important of rest can never be overemphasized, it's necessary in life to maintain good job delivery, and when it comes to child bearing the need for enough rest cant be push aside because of all the stress and process the woman undergo.

private sectors ain't trying at all, 6 weeks is pretty small , thank God you were taking care off when you break down.

I think government are trying on their path with the 6 months maternity break.

Yes, I was lucky I got help.
These private organisations are just a bit greedy.
More people are in the private firms than with government. Something needs to be done about it.
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You see anything Private Organisations are cruel and heartless, they don't want to know what you are going through you must resume work the exact time they give someone, if the person just adds one day to it then the person should kiss his/her job goodbye. Why would they be giving someone who had just given birth six weeks left before the person resumes back to work, who does that?

That is the word.
They are very heartless and cruel.
They don't care about staff they believe thousands will apply for the job immediately. So?
It is well with us.
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Maternity leave dear. We really need it to be more than what we get today. Some places women resume work four weeks after delivery. It is not good for our health at all. But what can we do? We also need to give enough time before getting pregnant again so that we can fully recover.
Thanks for sharing

Seriously, all these tell on our health as women.
These employers really need to change. The government has to do something about it.

Talking time before getting pregnant again is very important oh, if not ...😂
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Six to nine months would be nice for a woman who had just given birth I think every organization on Earth should adhere to that, in your case, it was way too early to resume work with a very tender baby, haba na it wasn't right.

Your cousin is trying in her job, if it was someone like me, I wouldn't want anyone to advise me I'd just leave cause it isn't worth it, everyone needs a break Monday to Sunday 7 am to 9 pm that's torture.

That is true my sis,
They know the right thing to do, they just don't want to do it. But if the government can enforce it, then it may stand.

About my cousin, don't mind her, she haven't worked before so, let her experience the sweet sour adulthood 😂
No one would tell her before she resigned.
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One year of maternity would be better dear🤣🤣 but just know that another big belle (protruding stomach)would follow the resumption time 🤣🤣🤣

😂😂😂😂😂
That is for those who don't know what they are doing 😂
I don't pity them😂
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