I am sorry if I sound personal,I am just interested to know why you didn't get marry while you have been living with the man for 18 years. That's so long a time. I mean is there anything in marriages that you people feel arduous to accomplish or what? Sorry again if that's too personal a question. Of course, you may choose to not answer.
About the traditions you have mentioned, they sound lovely especially the ring exchanges. I imagine the cheers from the attendees at that time.
Thanks for sharing about your customs with us. !LADY