Happy birthday to your wife. You need to make sure to remember it next year and do something nice for her! You don’t have to spend money but you do have to figure out a way to show her you care. Don’t assume she is happy about something like that. Also you need to know how old she is.. if you aren’t sure it just goes to show you don’t pay attention to small details and important things.
Just trying to help you, we need parents and families that are close and keep each other as best we can. There’s enough evil and nasty people in the world, we need to take care of those around us as best we can!