A Revenge On My Ex.

in HiveGhana10 months ago

Taking revenge on one thing or the other is what I’m not very good at. When I was little, I was always trying to revenge if someone does something wrong to me but on the long run, I realized it is not good. This is not because of the person who offended me but for myself.
It is not an easy thing to have someone in mind especially for so long. You will be troubled and your mind will not be at rest. That was the major reason why I stopped keeping people in my mind. I just forget what they do to me and move on.

Unfortunately, someone offended me sometime ago and I decided to take a revenge. The person is my ex and I wish to take a very big revenge on him.


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What kind of revenge do I plan on my ex?

Firstly, I would not say I’m perfect but so far so good, I was being plain and open in the relationship. It was all for love though but I felt he played smart on me pretending to love me and all. I felt bad and cried for days and decided to take a revenge on him and I’m still bent on my words.

I’ve planned the best revenge on earth on him. The major thing I wish to do is work my ass off and make money. I’m also pursuing my entertainment career and I’m sure that someday, I’d become a celebrity. I’d make sure I get that with all the things I’ve got. All of these have always been my goals but the break up made me more serious.


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That’s because I know he would not break up with me if I were a very fortunate person in this world. I don’t think there is anyone who will just want to have fun with a rich woman and just go that way. They’d always want to stay and they’d even respect you more cos you’re fortunate, a star and even everything they can ever dream to be.

My revenge on him is to achieve all of this and how will this have an effect on him? It is very simple. I’m sure that when he later realizes how big I am, he’d regret the eay he made me feel. He’d regret how he made me cry, ignored me and made me experience something I’m never going to forget in my life which I would not want to share.


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By the time I achieve all the things I want, the only thing he’d be saying is that he used to know me. I’m sure he’d want to talk to me again but it will be too late.
I’d be so rich to the extent of making him bow to me and even talk to me like his boss.
He didn’t value me and I know I’m valuable so I’m ready to do that.

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Hummn. This is cool. But I think you shouldn’t center your mindset of becoming great on revenge. Kdrama thought me that 😂. What if he also grow big too? You can’t expect him to stay low forever. Nollywood mentality 😂.

Anyways one of the best way to seek peace is to have money and live our lives with happiness. That’s alone is enough

We go grow together and I’d still show him pepper😂😂

This lady really mean business ooo. Omoh. I fear you small oo.

I don’t think there is anyone who will just want to have fun with a rich woman and just go that way

Unfortunately if a person doesn't love you, there's nothing you can do to keep them. Them staying with you and not loving you is even more dangerous, they could plan your death in order to take over everything you worked for.

Right now you are hurting, the best you can do for yourself is heal before any form of development will take place.

Well, you’re right
I’d let go and just do my thing

I know you’re hurt but don’t let it be the reason you want to be successful. You only want to be successfully just to spike him. But you know not all things go the way we want. Your ex might also be successful, you don’t have his life in your hands. Revenge shouldn’t be the reason you want to be successful. Don’t let it stop you from being a good person that you’re. Of course he hurt you by playing with your feelings but you have to move on and also wish them well, that’s life. Even rich women have their heart broken, it is what everyone experiences at one point in time.

Hmm
You’ve got a point
I’d let go then
Thank you!

Come play my game and forget about revenge. The game has just begun so its a good time to jump in and have some fun.

Some of the advice you got here from others is very good and I can add one more thing to it:

When you have hateful thoughts for others, it is like a prison for YOU! It is like taking poison in the hope that the other person dies from it! It actually damages you the most. Let it go and free your mind.

I find that the easiest way to forgive someone is to find a reason why they may have done whatever it was they did that hurt you. You might not agree that what they did was just or proper, but by finding a possible reason, I found it much easier to understand and thus forgive. That frees my mind and sets me free.

Thank you very much for these words. I’m working hard to forgive him. Also, what is the name of your game?

Mostly various versions of Zombie Adventure, but also something similar to Minesweeper, called Minefield. For Halloween, we played PumpkinHead and Skyler. If I get inspired and have the time I'll make up a new game to add to the list. My games are the longest-running continuous set of games on the Steem platform and have been migrated over to HIVE when HIVE was forked from STEEM.

You are right, the best revenge is to work on yourself and prove them wrong.

That’s the goal!