Life is too short - Don't live it depressed about situations you can't change or beyond you

in HiveGhana2 years ago

If you want to progress in life, failures here and there are inevitable and you must learn to face and deal with your losses, that should not make you quit and there is always a good thing that comes out of every bad thing that happens to us.


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We must always have in mind that we can't always win and failure is part of the stages to success.

Recently I purchased a coin worth 500 dollars and when it pumped slightly, I purchased 150 dollars more then it started dipping, I watched my money go down from 650 dollars to 400 dollars, I kept having hope that it would pump but the chat in their telegram chat is not encouraging, they keep saying most moved money from the blockchain to another trending blockchain, so today I watched my coins dipped to 190 dollars, I could not bare to lose more so I sold it off, I could have sold off when it was still 400 dollars but I didn't because I keep hoping and hoping but I realized that won't help and I need to restrategize.

I sold off 140 dollars worth of the coins and left 50 dollars for the bull, just in case the tide change, I bare the loss from the coin but I moved out the 140 dollars to an exchange to trade/play with it, I might end up losing it all or I might end up earning back the money I lost, I can't tell but I have moved on from the loss and looking forward to making it back in another way.

This is how everyone should treat life, do not be shaken by failure and quit totally because there is always a lesson to be learned from everything that happens to us, I learned a good lesson and I could use that to make back what I lost.


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I move on so fast from things that make me sad or break me, this makes people think I am emotionally detached or have no emotion, but they are wrong, my heart is so fragile that I don't want to cause more damage to it by thinking too much about things that I can't change, I move on fast from anything, just whatever it may be, because life is short and must not be spent being depressed on situations that is beyond us.

I hate losing people and this is why I don't make friends, I hate losing money and this is why most time am skeptical about certain investments and will always do my calculations both positive and negative outcomes before venturing into it so if anything later goes wrong, it won't affect me much because I expected it.

My partner would say why am I always thinking about negative things, I told her while thinking about the positive things, you must also think about the negative ones as that would help you make the right decision and also help deal with your losses if those negative things you think about happen... I am a deep thinker who would analyze and even think about impossible things that might happen so when they eventually happen, it doesn't shake me much...

Failure is part of life... If I lose everything I own today, I will just leave everything and everyone, move to another state or environment, and start all over again!.

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I can so relate with you. People think I’m heartless too because I move on fast. My point is if I keep on mourning over the issue, it won’t solve it and neither will it send me back in time so why waste my time?

And I’ve actually learned something from your little trading story. Thank you

getting worried or depressed over our losses or failure wont change anything, instead it would make our health deteriorate, so it is better to move on than suffer more...

as for the trading stuff, am glad i sold it cos the arrest of the owner of telegram just made it dip more, could have lost another 100 dollars plus if i didn't sell, so that is what am saying lol

Ooh that’s sad
Moving down from $500 to $190 isn’t nice
Well, you can’t kill your self and I’m glad you’ve moved on so fast even though you can’t easily forget it like that

omo am glad I sold off, it dipped more a few hours after I sold and yeah I have deal with the loss and already thinking of way to make it back

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I am able to recover from losses and adapt quickly because I want to grow. Seeing failure as a chance to learn and planning for possible risks. This has helped me stay focused and ready for new opportunities. Thanks for sharing.

Nobody can escape failure all the time. It's natural and as fast as we can adapt to it, it's good for us. I can relate to your trading experience as I also encountered it. If you learn from your mistakes then it's enough to make more money for you.
Positive thinking is good but getting ready for the worst situation is also necessary.
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Sorry about that
It hurts when someone lose and if it was me, I’d have regretted investing in the first place but the good thing is that you have moved on even though it still hurts you
I hope you make more profit in Jesus name

It's like two side of the same coin, positive and negative. Seeing both helps us become more realistic in anything we do. Moving fast from failure and loss can be a good thing because you progress further compared to someone who spends more time dwelling in their failure, which frankly doesn't change much.

That's quite a loss man, but then when we don't take risk then how do we truly gain. You and I know that in crypto you can win big or lose big, and I hope that the market will reward you for the loss.

Sometimes failure is inevitable, we just have to learn how to deal with it when we encounter it.