Life is really a lesson because there are so many things that is surrounded by it to learn from. We experience the ups and down of situations which isnt new anymore to we humans but what is most important to showcase is to never give up in life but to put in more effort to overcome situations. Life experience have taught me that the greatest move to take is to accept your own mistakes and work towards turning it around to achieve something better.
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I remember fews years back when my father lost his job for a company he has worked for many years. Things wasnt going on fine anymore as to feed was even a big issue for the family that we all have to do petty jobs in other feed. This struggle have been going on till I eventually lost my dad two years after.
The disappointed moment experienced during those hard time of struggle was that even those people my father helped financially all neglected the aim of helping which was the first lesson i learnt from the behavior of humans that they are not meant to be trusted and putting hope on such people is really a waste of time.
There were strict suggestions from family members that my mother should move down to the village with her children since we arent capable of paying rent anymore and since feeding also was an issue. That was a good advice from them but not accetable to us because it is all surrounded with mocking to a family that was living fine before.
That lack of helping from this same people was what motivate me to look for a better job in other to change situation of things because i promise my mother that we are not going to stay at the village because the lifestyle there is not encouraging as there is no means to depend financially there instead every environment there is surrounded by bush.
I got employed in an Indian company which was the starting point of a financial turnaround for me and my family. Though the work wasnt easy but because i understand my background, i had no choice than to do the job with joy. I have come to understand that believing in yourself will really go a long way in achieving goals which is a strong motivation to oneself.
The saying that every disappointment is a blessing is no joke when you believe in over turning situation because this can only occur when you put it to action. Humans can dissapoint at anytime, so putting hope on people is not advisable instead working on oneself to be better will be worth it in achieving goals if you truly believe in securing a better future for yourself and that however has worked for me in changing situations for good.
