I can relate to some points that you've mentioned, but I think mine was more of being stubborn. This reminds me of how my mother used to give me advice of what I should take in college. I was stubborn then, I sometimes regret about it. Yes, our parents and especially moms just want the best for us. Being scolded doesn't mean they hate us, perhaps they just want want to realize something and be wiser with our decision-making.