While everyone were saying what they feels should be done in a calm manner, and it was easy for the next person to understand. Marv was talking like he was in a debate.
Instead of him allowing it to get to his turn, and he can then say something, he raised up his hand, and it was like a bonus question, whereby anybody can speak inline with it.
Meanwhile, it was not, because we were not in a debate. So i bring to Marv noticed that he needs to hold on, because he will rightfully say his opinion, but it is not yet his turned to speak, since the midst was made of many people.
We have to be fair to every members, and not just one person alone. I guessed that was when he get it that, it’s not a debate we were after, but to have a good meeting where members feels happy of the day, and knows that each of their opinions and contributions varies in the midst.
Then it was Marv turn again to say something, behold he was constructive, he brought in the solution we were looking for, because he was able to hit the point, and which everyone accept to, and it was the acceptance of everybody.