Learning the hard way is always not good, but some people will push you off with don't tell me what to do and ruin their lives.
Going to university at such a young age should have been a very big advantage to her, but she misused it. Now, where are the big girls she hangs out with???
They've left her to feed for herself since she now has a big cross to carry. I hope she does enjoy her new life as it is.