Financial hardship and unpaid bills exposes alot in relationships, it's like the worse phase of a relationship, it's not always easy , it's a true test of love and loyalty.
True love might survive every phase, but when it involves financial challenges or limitations it's more difficult and rare to survive , the test is usually difficult and causes alot of issues between partners.
At this point love hardly works , because love won't pay the bill, like they say.
The fact remains that we can't neglect the important of finance in a relationship, it's more like without finance love can't be expressed properly, and this leads to the popular saying, love can't pay the bills.
But , there is a place of mutual understanding and mutual efforts between couples during a phase like this, at this point instead of feeling the male gender has to provide, because it's his responsibility, the female could also be supportive and resourceful, especially when you know your partner is just passing through a phase and he's a smart and a hard worker.
When bills get difficult to pay, it can breed so many attitudes, the one we call "pepper body" in Pigin, it just exposes how disrespectful your partner is, it shows unbelievable traits, unseen and inherent character, and this happens for both genders, for men they deal with their self esteem and make them paranoid, especially when the bill keeps piling.
It takes real patience and love for a relationship to stand during a financial hardship or crisis , it's a true test of love and understanding in relationships, because the pressure that comes with seeing unpaid bills can be really disheartening and painful .
I also agree with the fact that if love is real , then financial crisis can be handled and controlled through mutual understanding and mutual efforts between the two partners involved and if there's no love , It could lead to separation and misunderstanding.
Money and love are two important factors that leads to a good and successful relationship, money plays a very crucial roles but when there's financial crisis, I believe true love can still keep people going and conquering, especially when they believe in themselves, and have the potential to conquer and do great.
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