Cut your coat according your size.

in The Real Talk2 months ago

Greetings, dear friend 🥰. Hope you all are doing well. Thank you for stopping by my blog. Question of the week says, does love fade when bills arrive? The truth is one has to understand that, as you grow older, responsibilities grow with you too. A real man should know these. And the bills you're talking about here, which of them do you mean? Because for a married man who has kids, this is something that must happen bills will definitely come.

Only an irresponsible man's love fades when the bills arrive. But a real man will always know that bills are a must. And for the single, hmmm, I have seen singles who broke up their relationship because of bills, so I will say yes, love can fade when the bills arrive. Now imagine a teacher dating a girl who wears wigs of 150k; where will he see that kind of money to waste? At the point when she asks for such an amount to get a new wig or clothes, the love will fade instantly na 🤣🤣🤣.

I for once had these experiences in the past. When I was serving then, I had this teacher friend who showed interest in me. I didn't say anything to him because I knew he couldn't afford me as of then, so one fateful day he came to my house, and we were having some chat when I told him that I needed to make my hair. He asked how much, and I told him 10k. 🤣🤣 Guess what? That 10k is his one-month salary. At that point, he withdraws from coming to my house because he knows that I will ask for more. People who spend anyhow are the kind of people who didn't really work hard for the money.

One who goes to work from morning till evening will definitely know how to manage money and will always plan his life. Let me talk about my husband a little. My hubby is a civil servant; he told me that whatever he does, he always plans it first. So at the end of every month, I give him a list of what we will be needing in the house. Some months, the bills will be high, while some months, it won't be much, but there is a plan. And again, because I know he is trying for me and the kids, when I have money, I support the family in my little way.

So I will just say cut your coat according to your size. Go for someone you can afford. Thank you for reading through.

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In my opinion , yes love really fades when bills arrived. I'm just thankful that my husband is very understanding and responsible, but there are times financial problem really challenges how strong we are. Whenever I see that my husband couldn't provide enough I also make a way on how to help him ease the burden, because after all we are partners.

This is beautiful, I do help my husband too in buying something in the house when I have enough cash. Thank you very much for such an amazing comment.

The truth is one has to understand that, as you grow older, responsibilities grow with you too.

Yea I really enjoyed your post only irresponsible ones spend anyhow in others words date someone who you know you can be able to take care of their bills that's actually nice thanks for sharing by the way this your looking fits you

Smile... Thank you very much.

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