This is my entry to the Hive Learners weekly contest.*
Arguments can look friendly, but one thing in life is that there are always limits. Limits in everything we are doing really help us and are a good thing. We know people but should always know when to put a stop to what we are doing in life. There should be a crossline in what we are doing.
When I walk into an argument between people, I try to know the reason for the very argument. What really led to the argument at hand, and know how to solve it. One thing is knowing but not trying to tell them to explain things. Explaining to people might take time, and after each explanation, one might really feel the other person is at fault, the other person still tabling the reason for the actions. Then who is to be blamed?
I try to tell them to really let all those things slack , let all the things that might have beaten in the night become insects and go away. Still going away, then they should now settle that which is between them and move forward in a peaceful way. Let them really settle and move forward with their discussions and life.
An argument is an argument, and still yet each person would always want to be the winner. When there is an argument and one really knows that what he or she is saying is really the reality, then being steadfast is a great thing. You know that this particular thing is supposed to be this way; you are true about the facts about it and not in a situation where you are not sure of the source of the information. In this area I remain in my conviction of that in which I really believe about it backing off by me is still not a big deal. Each time I notice that the argument is going too far, I don't need to continue. I let everyone believe in what they feel or like, but tabling it how it is supposed to be is important and should still yet be continued doing by us all.
We really need to always walk away no matter what might be happening. We leave the vicinity, which is no longer okay for us all. People sometimes would want to start exchanging words now, leaving the table at hand and trying to act funny. It's indeed not good and should always be avoided.
When it now gets to something we are not understanding, we really can put a stop to it.
Trying to avoid it from escalating is a very great task in our lives. Like some people can just succumb, maybe to wait, after which we can still go with what we know is the truth. Instead of one problem or the very. Peace is really amazing, and in everything that we are doing, let's really create an environment of peace.
The power of silence is really a good thing and walking away can really be helpful 🙏.
The keep hoping for the best.
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