Family Time Should Be Sacred

in Hive Learners7 months ago

If one is to be seriously working all year round it will come to a point that depression will come knocking on the door and before long the victim will be overtaken this is why it is important to create some time to rest from our busy schedule. I always have this saying that money no dey finish, there was money before I came to the world and money will still be there after I depart so there is no need to over load myself just to make this money.

One critical thing I have observed overtime is, the people far from us are so close more than those we have in the same house this is just because of the amount of time and value we have give to them. This goes so bad to the point that people in the same house are sick or trying to relate how terrible they are feeling, because our phone and those in there seems to be of more value we fail to give them that listening ears.

Growing up some family learnt to stay and relate so well, most times due to the level of love that was introduced by the parents some siblings can't just do without the other. I remember those days that myself and my immediate elder brother do things in common to the point that many thought we were twins.

Now that we are all grown and have our families we hardly come together except on special occasions. In my own few, family time should be sacred sacred in the sense that nothing should come in between. As I said earlier,, some persons use their phone to the point that they don't mind what's happening around. Hence we are not always together, those little time we share together should be hallowed and memorable.

Not that a law should be made to this effect, but by understanding people should just know that it is what should be down. The last Christmas I traveled to be with my family, I didn't just bother myself with much work because I know we will not stay forever and I just needed to create that lasting memory with them. Till date my kids still make reference to the place they visited and the people they met.

Putting the law, no phones during family time is not so necessary to me, we are all grown and now what is good to be done, when it is put as a law people will make reasons not to abide by it, so it's better the way we work in understanding. The time we spent together, calls comes in and people take their calls. Also, the phone is important so that some good moment can be captured. My sister is so good at capturing action pictures.

The importance of family time should not be underrated because everyone comes from a family, infact that is the beginning and ending of everyone, so we need to give them some good time so it will serve a memorial too.

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Family timeout should be kept sacred. Oh yes there's time for everything. Thanks for sharing

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Even though we are now adults, we must continue to be vigilant in deciding to do what is right. A timely reminder never hurts. Nice pictures. Greetings @hivedeb

Yeah, we still need to do the right thing well so the younger generation will learn too.

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Sometimes we wish family will stay together forever but it is what it is. We should enjoy the moment when the opportunity comes knocking

The opportunity is not always there, but when it does...we just need to use it wisely. Thanks dear

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Some people can be so glued to their phones and even forget they are living with people, that's how bad phones have affected how we relate and bond with people around us, a little time away from the phone will help.

Seriously , that's too bad. I hope we adjust

You are right family bonds should be sacred, even some people won't even care about who they are living with as long they have their phone they are satisfied, we should always find time to bond with family. Thanks

And that pains too...thanks dear for adding your voice

Indeed family is where the beginning and ending of where you belong. We should cherish every memory with our loved ones❤

Every memory with our own counts. Thanks dear

I would say that isolating ourselves with a cell phone while we are with our family is bad manners. We need to empathize with our family members and pay attention to them. The cell phone is an accessory that helps us to perform tasks and preserve memories through photos and videos, but because of its usefulness it can enslave us if we get caught up in social networking.

Yeah, social network can a times enslave someone so we need to be so careful of the whole thing.

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I only started to truly understand the importance of family when I moved away from home.

At home, I would always fight with my mom but once I’m away, we bond better than anything. Distance really makes us feel the void.

I believe that’s your kids will only use their phones during family time when you do same. Once you drop yours, they will also do same. It’s more like a mentor - mentee relationship.

We may not really understand how dear our family is to us until we are far apart from each other.

Yeah, kids learn faster by observation. Thank you for adding your voice

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Let the good moment be captured without phone interactions. Some phone addicts wouldn't gree
Technology kept interfering with family relationships. Adults don't need phone law. We all know the right thing to do

Yeah, adults don't need phone laws because it looks somehow. Let's just be guided in all we do

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Yes dear, we all come from a family. But someone also need to take pictures and it won't be bad if we do that. We need the phone close to us, though maybe in vibration so that we may not miss out something very important that we might be expecting at that time. So we check both sides.
Thanks for sharing