Three kids and three jobs means quite limited time to think and do about something aside...

I perfectly understand your motivation 😂--mine is similar (Sad but True (a statement & an intelligent answer inherited from the Heavy Metal of the 90's, which we can easily call one of the philosophies of the end of the century).

BUT my only child, my boy, is already a young man. I couldn't tell if I need coffee to focus; I'm still thinking about it, but what you say makes sense to me!