@missquiarah hello! Their our person who can easily to forgive and some are not. When they deeply been hurt its not easy for them. But I believe much better to forgive and ignore because you will have peace. We cant blame others if it took years to forgive. Those person deeply wounded we cannot question them. Who are we to question their experiences. We're not on there shoes. Its case to case basis. But it really depends how the person handle the situation. Its for them to find out the peace and forgiveness there looking for. Keep on praying that God will heal their soul. And love, understanding and kindness will heal them. I will feel disappointed too if there they will not commit on what they say. But maybe there other important things they need to finish. I don't know.. Commitment is very important to me. And much better to say it earlier and they will not come. But its ok just enjoy the rest of the day you have. Take care and always choose love!