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RE: Elevator Etiquette

in Reflections2 months ago

Etiquette is gone bro... the whole damn world seems to have a "me first, me only" method of living these days. Elevators drive me crazy in Vietnam as even on the ground floor the people rush the gate as if the people inside were just going to ride back up with them. When me and my bowling crew are there we are all kind of large foreigners and we don't want to start a fight or anything but we rush the door once it opens and have to physically create a wall in order for the people already in the elevator to be able to get out.

I dont understand the panic. Things would actually move faster if people would just be courteous. These days I see human behavior and feel like these are the actions of children, not adults but honestly, outside of environments that consist almost entirely of the elderly, courtesy and patience just seems to be gone.

BTW the Embassy Suites is my earliest memory of staying in a nice hotel when my father had a traveling job that his company paid for. I thought my dad was rich and famous it was so nice in my young eyes. I believe it is just kind of middle of the road hotel though, isn't it?

Ever stayed in a Residence Inn? I really liked those.

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Yeah, things have really went downhill. I think a lot of it has to do with the empathy deficit I have been talking about every now and then for a while. I'm actually reading a book right now called "Let Them" and it basically says adults have the emotional level of an 8 year old. Just some of them have learned how to handle and regulate those emotions better. Remember all the fights over "cutting" in line back in school.... :) On this past trip I had to physically shove people back to help an older lady get her cart out of the elevator on the ground floor. It was bad. Embassy is pretty middle of the road these days. I have rewards plans with both Mariott and Hilton, but I tend to stay at Hilton more. Ever since Covid the quality of everything has gotten worse and in a couple of weeks we are giving Mariott a chance again. Not a Residence Inn, but still a Mariott brand hotel.