Greetings, beautiful ladiesofhive!
I am so excited to participate in this week's edition and I want to share the emotional journey that I stripped off that wasn't part of my future. And it was about a relationship I wanted to build. I didn't know this guy wasn't meant for me. He had broken my heart not with other ladies, but with his attitude towards the things of God. He wasn't committed and sacrificial at all.
I love young men who are committed to the things of God but he wasn't at all. He was in and out of it. I didn't notice that, he also cheated with many girls. In my mind, this guy isn't for me. And one of my friends told me I should cut ties with him immediately, and I did with pain in my heart. I loved him at that time. And truly this love was a blind one 🤣.
There wasn't something beneficial about the relationship then and in the future, I had to let go because it wasn't important for me.
I withdrew myself from him and I decided to look into myself, develop, and build myself to become a better version of myself now and in the future.
Some relationships or people don't need to follow you to your present; otherwise, it will break or mar your destiny.
We need vision to marry, the one that comes from God. Every good gift comes from the Lord. A man or woman who is godly, who doesn't follow the standard or pattern of the world but God's pattern. The vision will direct you to the right person who will be needful and useful in your present.
In all, I cut it off, to pursue my ambition that aligns with the vision placed in my heart. Any relationship that will drain me emotionally, I cut it off, preferring a healthy relationship with a vision for the future. I guard my heart diligently.
This is my response to the ladiesofhive contest #287
I love, I care, and I forgive
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