Ladies of Hive Community Contest #239 - About achieving goals

nainaztengra in Ladies of Hive • 2 days ago

Contest #239 of @Ladiesofhive community questions for this week are :

1️⃣ You came to this world with a mission that only belongs to you and you chose, so I invite you to ask yourself what was missing to achieve those goals, how many excuses did you make?
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2️⃣ We always hear the classic "it is for your own good," but only you know what is "good" for you, because it is your life, it is your experience, it is that you become the leader of your life — what dreams do you have now, do you like what you have?

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In the earlier days of my life, which was in 20s and 30s I operated absolutely without any kind of purpose in life. At that stage life was just about work and growing up my Son. I never thought anything beyond that and like many people I felt that my life is all about these things and it's meant to be that way. Just having a good domestic life was my mission 20 years back.

But then as life progressed I realized that my life was just not about handling domestic matters and working 9 to 5 job. To be honest I still do not know what is the destined mission of my life, it is very difficult for me to say that because I feel that there is not one thing that I want to achieve. There are multiple timeline goals that I have and in the last 20 years I have been constantly working on them. I am a very determined person, so once if I have a goal set I will work whole heartedly on it and there is no procrastination on it. There are some days when I can go a little slow but that does not mean the goal is out of my sight. If I have a goal then there is no space for excuses.

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The second question, true it is very easy for people to make this statement on someone who is having a hard time and they can so easily say, it is for your own good. Possibly it can be but may be not. If someone from the opposite end is putting you in trouble then not necessary it is for my good. People have malicious intentions and they may not wish good and put me through a tough time, in those circumstances it is not for my good. Rather it is spoiling my mental health.

I do not like people judging me or forming opinions about my life events of what is good for me and what is not, because sometimes even if it may be good for me but the situation may be extremely tough for me and not easy to sail through and I may not want it to happen, even if it is for the good.

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lhes 2 days ago

Honestly speaking, there are some days that we feel contented. Feels like the goals we set was achieve but after seeing others?

Thinks hormones at time that makes us doubt ,😂 .

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takhar 2 days ago

Definitely! Having a clear purpose early on life isn't something that many people have. I sometimes think that the purpose itself could change throughout a lifetime and this could be a good thing, since we can achieve multiple goals across multiple domains.

I've been on the receiving end of such statements, especially when transitioning to other stages in life. Especially elders, they'll keep saying "I know what's good for you because I've been there, this is better than the other option...blah blah blah..

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cautiva-30 2 days ago

I identify with you, for that time between work and raising your child (in my case I have a daughter), I think that is part of all those multiple goals, and that is reflected as you say, in being that determined person, in the constant work and put all the heart in them, as you say, no excuses.

I agree with you, many times people make judgments without knowing the reality of the situation, because the reality is that we live our own experience my dear friend, thank you for sharing your experiences,
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van.illa 2 days ago

I enjoyed reading, thanks for sharing.

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People who always contribute and support are the ones we find on the platform. Our goals change over time; it's natural. A successful week.

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cabzphoto 21 hours ago

Hermosas fotografías😃

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sayury 13 hours ago

Hola, estimada amiga, me gustó mucho leer tu post. Creo que tener sueños, proyectos, metas, es lo que nos hace ir hacia adelante. No tenerlas es vivir una existencia bàsica, yo dirìa mediocre, simple. Con respecto al segundo punto...bueno...a veces nos apuramos en opinar sobre la vida de otros cuando no estamos claros con la nuestra. Mi mamà decìa "Cada quien hace de su camisa un saco y se mete adentro". Creo que lo quequerìa decir era que cada quien era responsable de sus propios actos, de su propia vida y debìamos respetar eso. Es dificil saber si algo a la final resultarà para bbien o para mal...solo el tiempo lo die...y muchas veces ns sorprende con lo que dice. Gracias por compartir. Èxito en el concurso.

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