December 28 was the day my husband and I got married.
Back when we were still boyfriend and girlfriend, our monthsaries felt exciting.
We would plan and look for simple treats. We were happy that we were still choosing each other. 🫣
Then came anniversaries, more flowers, more food, and more effort.
And honestly, I loved it.
Now that we're married, life is different.
There are bills to pay, kids to care for, and responsibilities that never seem to rest.
When December 28 arrived, our 5th wedding anniversary, I didn't feel as excited as I used to.
Not because I don't love him anymore. But because celebrating now feels like another expense.
Another meal out, another plan, another cost.
Does this mean I've changed? Or worse... Have I stopped valuing our anniversary?
One day, my mom called and asked what our plans for our anniversary.
I answered with a small laugh, stating that we don't have a plan as we don't have a budget for that.
She said, we can celebrate it in their house. She's the one to cook... and provide a simple meal.
And they really prepared.
My mom cooked beef bulalo, and my sister prepared her chicken inasal.
It was just a simple meal, but I could feel the love and effort they put into it. 🥹
We also bought a small tub of ice cream for dessert.. only to find out they also bought ice cream. Same flavor, just bigger!
After dinner, they brought out an alcoholic drink.
Their effort made me love them even more.
And for my hubby, I gave him a gift. His favorite chocolates. 🍫
A small thing, but it's like a quiet thank you for the patience, forgiveness, and faithfulness.
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Over the past five years, I've seen how much we've grown.
Not just as husband and wife, but as two imperfect people learning real-life love.
We used to react quickly, get hurt easily, and hold on to misunderstandings.
But slowly, we learned to say sorry.
To forgive. To listen first before defending ourselves.
We learned to practice respect, especially when emotions are high.
And I'm grateful for him as a husband and a father.
He helps me in ways he can and supports us.
I may not always say it loud but I notice. And I appreciate him.
Marriage hasn't always been easy, but every challenge taught us something.
Every victory reminded us that God is still working in us.
To more anniversaries to come, honey @xtianjeff! I love you. 😘
Until our next celebration...
Thanks for the visit! Have a lovely day. Buh-bye. 💗🌸
