Very true bro; Real marriage is what happens off the social media. A lot of people this day are very good at showing off, pretending to be what they are not. It will suprise you to know that some marriage councellors have constant fights in their homes yet they are very good at advising other couples on how to live peacefully in marriage.
And I really love your standards and percpective of marriage. Argument is bound to happen but it must be done on purpose and as well be treated with maturity. Thanks for sharing this vital info.