I was just thinking, “some people just want your comfort rather than solutions” and then read further to see that even that much was despised too. Honestly, I can relate with how you feel. People almost 100% of the time don’t know what you as a person is going through because you constantly show up for them. Each and every time and they take it for granted. It’s indeed a generational problem or maybe it’s just the way the world has turned the generation to be.
All in all, I have decided to mind my business. It’s best for my mental health and I’m already dealing with too much to worry what someone else is going through or how they view me at the moment.