Mmm, another way to approach this. This is actually very good so far as your mental health isn’t at stake.
But then I was wondering how long you can mind your business especially when your loved ones need you.
Oh. Lol. Well, in the past, I would be one to rush to help. Especially when it seems they need it. But now, I have gotten to the point where I have fully understood that my loved ones are all full fledged adults. Should they come to me with an earful, I also expect that they understand my person and tell me exactly what they are seeking for: comfort or solutions? I don’t do well with confusion. But maybe it’s just me. That’s how I face it. Everyone is different.