My dad passed away when I was very young but I remember his death was painful, the last 2 years of his life he was bedridden and suffered too much with his health conditions. Then 10 years ago my mother in law passed away, she too went through the same process, almost one year she was in pain and suffering. Lately my best friends father is also in his last stages of life, we do not know when the end will come but doctors have informed us that the family should be prepared, it can be any time. He has been suffering in cancer since past 2 years. Last evening I received news from my friend, his father passed away, he was suffering since a year with acute Parkinson.
Like wise, so many people I know who have passed away have all been in pain and suffering for the last 1 or 2 years of their life. And I am thinking to myself all the time, why does death have to be with pain and suffering majority of the time. Why cannot it be peaceful, why can't we just die without any ailments, without any diseases, without a stroke or a cancer. Why can't we just die very peacefully in our sleep when the time has come for us to move to the next realms.
In sickness the body starts giving up and failing in many ways and eventually shutting down completely. Can the body just not shut down instantly when it is time for us to leave. We come with destined lives, and from all that I have read I understand we have couple of exit points which we can choose to go or not go and then eventually there is a final time which cannot be avoided and the exit has to be made. I can never say if all of this is right or not but some of it when I read it makes a lot of sense to me. It is said that the first exit point is much easy but if we do not choose to pass over in that and then not the second and third also then every exit point starts getting difficult and that's where a lot of pain and suffering sets in. And in all we have 5 exit points, and in some other place I read it is 3, so this is still something to contemplate on.
I always keep telling my mind that I am ready to go on the first exit point itself. I do not wish to prolong life, there are attachements but then there will always be something or the other going on, so there is no point of waiting to see certain things happening. And our human mind is such that it never gets satisfied, when one goal is achieved then the second one is always waiting next in line.
Again as I say, who knows if all of this is right or not, but then when I see so much suffering in death most of the times, even with young people, it just makes me feel, I do not wish to die in suffering, I would rather pass over peacefully when the first time death knocks my door. What's the point of living a life which has no life in it.
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