We and our African mother in-laws Contest #284

in #ladiesofhive3 months ago

Hi everyone
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Today topic is very interesting .
In my own opinion , some mother in-law are blessing from God while others are lesson .

The way some mother in laws are misbehaving you will wonder if they are created by God .
I am saying this base on experience ,the way some mother in-laws will treat you , you will be surprised because you will be wonder weather they are desame people you meat before marrying there son .
Some of them are calm , careing , and understanding.

I have witness a lot of things about some mother in-laws , some of them have fear of God .
Even though you have mother in-law who is not understanding , the way you chat , talk or approach them matters a lot .
When you are with your mother in-law always find things realistic to discuss with them .
Don't talk anyhow to them no matter what .
Try and creat a bond between you and them , don't always talk or laugh 😂 carelessly , it irritate them .
One more thing, don't argue with them , no matter the offense they comityed , some of them think they have power and superior over you .

Mind your lane , and also be prayerful .
Because you don't know what is behind or above you . Treat them like eggs even though is not your wish .
And also , stop discussing what you and your husband or wife discuss in private .
Any thing private should remain in private .
That's all I have to say for now thanks for stopping by and for your time 🙏🙏🙏

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You are very right. Some MILs are devils in disguise and others are just perfect, caring and understanding. We ladies, should appreciate the work those mothers have put into our spouses, but then again, we are not there to be trampled upon. I have always relied on my own judgement. If they treat me right, I am honey, but if they treat me like the maid, I am out of the house and never return. haha!

Exactly ,that is the point and thank you for stopping by and for your time

I was lucky that my mother-in-law was a blessing, but I completely agree that private matters should remain private. We owe them respect even if they don’t do what we’d like them to, although it’s also our responsibility to set the boundaries of that privacy.
Your post wasn’t published in the Ladies of Hive community https://peakd.com/c/hive-124452/created you could cross-post it if their rules allow it. (Read them first, just in case)